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See, it’s not complicated at all…
November 10, 2009, 2:38 PM
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same-sex-marriage-flow-chart



NY Senators still looking for more votes.
November 10, 2009, 1:43 PM
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“I love them. I love them. But I don’t believe in what they are doing. They are my brothers. They are my family. So how could I be a homophobe?”
November 10, 2009, 1:39 PM
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The puzzling contradictions of Ruben Diaz, Sr.



“And in that moment, I knew. That day, the marriage was over.”
November 8, 2009, 1:01 PM
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Straight ex-spouses discuss their gay husbands and wives, and how gay marriage is as good for straight people as it is gay people. One woman said, “I think straight spouses are the nameless anonymous victims. We’re not ignored — because that sounds intentional — but unseen.”



“Equality’s Ragged March”
November 8, 2009, 12:49 PM
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Benefits for gay partners become tax-free under House health care bill.
November 8, 2009, 11:50 AM
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In a piece about “hidden” measures in the recently passed House health care bill, the New York Times calls attention to a long-standing inequity.



Live-blogging the Obama Presser
July 22, 2009, 7:05 PM
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8:04: What’s in this for me? Obama is going to answer those questions.

8:06: Health insurance will be paid for. 2/3 of the cost will be reallocation, including subsidies that aren’t working. “working through proposals” to cover the other 1/3. But I promise, it won’t add to the deficit and we won’t tax the middle class. Translate: rich people, you are screwed.

8:08: This isn’t about me. This about YOU, America. Americans want this and we can’t let them down. (Are polls saying that these days?)

8:11: The cost of health care. How are we going to pay for it? 2/3 is deficit neutral by tax dollars already spent. The other 1/3? There are a number of different ways: limit the deductions for the wealthiest Americans. Wealthy Americans taking the same percentage deduction as middle class, that will pay for it. But I’m open to new ideas.

8:15: Obama is selling health care the way he sold the stimulus. We need to do this. If we don’t do it we’re in big trouble.

8:18: Why the rush on health care? We’re rushing because it’s urgent. People are writing me letters. If you don’t set deadlines things don’t happen. (Is Obama afraid he will never be as popular as he is now and that’s the only way this can happen?)

8:22: Is there a mandate? Unless you have a single payer system you’re not going to reach everyone; you can’t always reach that guy that’s going to get hit by a bus. Our plan will cover 97-98% of America.

8:25: I’m happy with the republicans that support my plan. Maybe they won’t vote health care, but we want their ideas.

8:28: Will Americans have to give anything up? YES, they will have to give up things that won’t make them healthier. (Smoking? or a broken health care system?)

8:30: Blue pills and red pills: Are we in the matrix?

8:32: Back to the deficit and the stimulus…we lost trillions…bye bye money. Obama is doing a step by step recap of his first seven months in office.

8:34: We inherited this deficit, we have not reduced it as much as we need to but health care reform won’t add to that deficit, in fact, it will lower it.

8:38: Are you fulfilling the promise on transparency? The kick-off was on cspan; well now we have all kinds of meetings, if they want them on cspan they can do it. We’re much better on transparency than we were.

8:40: A harder line on Wall Street? Fees on risky lending practices? Obama retells the story of his first seven months of presidency. Hey, we’re not going to fall off a cliff anymore. Now that the financial system has “bounced back” the banks are profitable and are paying the tarp money back…and that’s good…but we haven’t seen the change in behavior that got us into the mess in the first place. What should we do? We need financial regulatory reform. If we don’t pass the reform then we’ll have the same problem we had before. Same reasoning for stimulus and health care. If we don’t do it we’re in trouble.

8:46: Obama’s poll numbers are low in Ohio, question from the Cleveland Plain dealer.

8:50: Obama is clearly not a physician. This is where Howard Dean would come in handy. Shoutout to Cleveland Clinic.

8:52: Henry Louis Gates question…Obama is at his most comfortable when he can make jokes.



Take me out to the ball game? No thanks.
July 2, 2009, 6:03 PM
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I ran across this column today, but more specifically, this image (which unfortunately won’t embed).

I’m no prude, and I tend to, as many people do, make jokes that probably shouldn’t be made. But there is something about making a joke, and then taking that joke and turning it into an image, whether a sign or a t-shirt, that crosses a line for me. There’s something deliberate, and certainly more overt about that. And even if you really don’t see yourself as homophobic, and maybe you’re even a strong supporter of gay rights, but to wear something like that, it becomes an emblem of something that is actually pretty inappropriate, and irresponsible.

Imagine being the 13 year old kid at the Sox/Cubs game last weekend secretly dealing with his own confusing sexuality. Even if his parents are the most supportive people in the world, in that moment the world confirms to him that he will, for as long as anyone can tell, be thought of as little more than a punch line. And a bad one at that.

ADDED: Katie Rogers alerted me to many more homophobic, racist, and anti-disability t-shirts from this company. I wouldn’t give their site the traffic, but hopefully people on the North and the South sides can come together to consciously boycott this company.

I’ll talk to people at HRC and see if we can get some field people in Chicago to get involved. I’ll keep you posted.



“But 2009 is not then, and if the current administration really is worried that it could repeat Clinton’s history on Don’t Ask, that’s ludicrous.”
June 28, 2009, 8:37 PM
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It has been 40 years since Stonewall…and we’re still fighting.

Gay Americans aren’t just another political special interest group. They are Americans who are actively discriminated against by federal laws. If the president is to properly honor the memory of Stonewall, he should get up to speed on what happened there 40 years ago, when courageous kids who had nothing, not even a public acknowledgment of their existence, stood up to make history happen in the least likely of places.



My blogs for the Human Rights Campaign’s Equality in the Courts Blog
June 27, 2009, 9:59 AM
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